So in this video I would like to start ruppe in the section about bringing it to a close.
I do appreciate that it's been quite an intense section like the last section wasn't in Tennessee there
it was.
I'm just being honest here.
As you're probably noticing my voice starts to get a little bit crooked.
And the reason for this is because when I'm producing courses like this I get on a bit of a natural
flow.
I'm literally just presented some words on the board to you.
And I'm doing the best to explain to you as honestly and as authentic we as physically possible how
they interconnect so that you can get a better understanding of what it is that drives and inspires
and motivates people.
These are our core values.
What I would like to do in this video is just to share with you the words that I think I may have mentioned
earlier on in the course but just in a different context note in relation to our core values and these
words are words that were spoken out by the late mcgurn the man who inspired a nation a man who laid
who led thousands tens of thousands possibly even millions to a place of liberation a man who played
a crucial role in liberating the nation or India.
And he said one day.
Be the kind of person for a people that you would fundamentally have then be free.
And Gandhi was a man of faith.
We know this.
The history books tell all this but if we look at how this man exercised his faith no other word or
religious any here might actually be in very very practical.
Do appreciate I've spent a few moments a few minutes perhaps 10 in one of your earlier videos explaining
and unpacking this term but if you look at how that man exercised his faith he was a stubborn man was
ANY not stop us in.
Prideful are again and stubborn.
He was completely free within himself.
He was fully committed to being completely authentic and giving everything that he heard to his nation.
In the end he eventually even gave up his life.
That was through a murder attempt which obviously succeeded but
Gandhi won the hearts of the nation not because he engaged with them on a level to win their minds to
teach them what the right way of living life was.
But through the way in which he conducted himself and through the way in which he lived his life not
just teaching core values but through living the moment.
Be the kind of person for other people that you would have him before you think about this completely
interconnects with the core value of a connection the quality of life.
Always going to be heavily influenced by the quality of the relationship so we keep the quality of the
relationships that we keep it going to be determined and heavily influenced by the amount of trust there
is in the relationship.
The amount of trust there is in any of our relationships is always going to be determined by how authentic
and transparent we are willing to be.
So this is no beginning to point towards the more practical elements and side of life coaching.
Up until now we've gone really deep lugt our core identity and overlooked our core values and this is
just the beginning.
Think the stuff that I've shared with you.
Up until now is really for no other purpose than for you to simply get in the door and win people's
hearts.
You see if you're coming from an analytical perspective I've taken this stuff raining down rain some
notes and regurgitating it towards people then you might get some more analytical people on a head level
but you're never going to win anyones hearts and if you never win anyones hearts then you're never going
to be able to engage with them on an authentic in a meaningful way.
If you want to coach people coaching is about getting beyond the head and reaching and connecting with
people on a higher level you connect with people on a heart level through winning their trust and through
being the kind of person for them that you would have them be for you.
Remember in the last section we looked at core identity and I asked you to close your eyes for a few
minutes and just consider this person.
Remember they were loading the were akane compassionate and all sorts of things they turned round and
who I described was actually YOU WILL THIS IS WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT.
WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT.
Authenticity.
There's nothing complex about this.
There's nothing complicated about it.
It's about you just simply exercising your freedom to choose security on external things as side security
can sometimes interconnect with connection.
Connections are a good thing but on authentic connection is not a good thing.
If the only reason why someone is connecting with you or why your connection with someone else is because
you are pretending to be someone that you're not or because they're pretending to be someone they're
not.
And the connection is not real it's not genuine.
It's not based upon trust.
It's not based upon compassion.
So in order for you to influence other people more effectively it's imperative that you help other people
to understand what it is that's fundamentally driving them in life.
And the only way sometimes to help people understand what's actually driving them in life is through
demonstrating what it is that's driving you as you live your life by example though through this section
of the course I have done my very best to illustrate this.
I do apologize.
I wouldn't have done this perfectly.
But I'm not a perfect human being and the same way that you're not sweating the same way that I'm hoping
you extend me your Grace for being an imperfect person I also hope that others you commit to life coaching
all these people over there come to you extend you their grace for being imperfect also.
This is actually going to wrap this section up.
I am going to reference back to the section for pretty much the remainder of the course because this
is all about self concept.
I work the All life is a life where all of our values are being met in some way.
I mean if you think about it if you're alive does it feel void of any of these things then you're fundamentally
going to feel for failed peace within yourself and if you're are at peace with yourself and your fundamentally
feeling for felt then that means that there's not going to be anything left for you to do in life other
than give.
And when you are free in life from your own core values your own needs you what is your own preferences.
And once you reach the stage of life when you're just given absolutely everything you've got it's Then
and only then that other people are going to experience the authentic value that only you have to offer.
It is then and only then what are they going to see you as being genuinely significant and important
to them in their eyes sort of really done through the section is present you with a whole lot of options
a whole lot of choices that they're going to tell you which ones are right or which ones are wrong.
I've had to learn these lessons the hard the hard way.
I guess that is through making these mistakes in life that's helped me to develop the understanding.
Some people might even call the wisdom that are hard today.
I'm not saying that I'm a wise person but some people would say otherwise.
I'm hoping that you've taken something from the section and hope that you're able to relate much of
what I've shared to yourself because leaders go first in order to influence other people.
It's imperative that you have first been influenced and if you're taken this course it's because you're
committed to making progress moving forward in some way.
So become the person for other people whether you would have them or someone be for you.
This for me is the very essence of life coaching and I hope that I've really done this topic justice
that have served you well through my authenticity and also through more honesty.
I know what I shared with you in the last section.
You're most likely recognising there's no being true.
When I say that I'm honest I'm sincere I'm passionate and creative among these sorts of things.
I'm doing the best that I can with what I've got.
All right just don't shoot the messenger.
Please I ask you to beg yet Robert to rub the section up.
We've put together a work book that I mentioned in the last video and this called the core values workbook.
In fact what we're going to do here is I'm going to actually make two available.
Alright.
One of the word books is going to be branded as I would own and branded core values workbook.
When going you to take some time to reflect upon and worked through in your own time just for you remember
leaders go first.
But the second word is going to be an unbranded workbook and it's a comprehensive workbook but you'll
soon discover for yourself.
I'm going to ask you to print off a few copies off and present other people to help them work through.
You're helping people to understand the core values in life.
Can something just be as simple as being honest about it.
This is actually driving you.
You do not have to communicate what I've communicated here in the same way in which I've communicated
these things.
Just communicate what your core values are in a way that's authentic to you.
Don't be an empty it or be un or originate or because in life more followers imitators people only ever
enmity those who get there first and who demonstrate complete authenticity through being them selfs.
So to wrap up this section I encourage you to take the greatest risk that you can possibly take in life
and be ura.
To itself discover what it is that drives you because it's then and only then that you're going to be
able to more authentically influence others in helping them to establish and become clear on what this
is fundamentally that driving them to.
Because once they're clear on this you're right.
Liberating and setting them free to get out there and make wiser and more well informed decisions about
the things that they say yes to about the things that they seem to about those that they take forward
with them into their future.
And about those who leave behind in the past saw hobby phoned this section valuable insightful interesting
unbendable for a Starbucks coffee and a bit of a break for a star at work.
And the second section in which time you are going to be doing your core values what a book anyway.
So I hope you find that a useful tool a whole sections made sense and I look forward to seeing again
in the next.